How to lead in intimate chat

intimate chatWhy the women who do not have satisfactions from the sexual relations do not try to talk to the man about the desires, are afraid of it to offend or to anger? They in all discuss similar subjects on pages of female forums, can chat about it with the close girlfriends.

And here to the man who the word is the author and the performer of love stories often even cannot utter about it. And very much in vain! After all, in soul unrealized imaginations and desires collect, the hidden offenses torment. From sex, no matter if it’s psychical or virtual, both partners have to derive pleasure to each other. And if it happened so that gentle touches, passionate groans became a little, means time frankly came to talk each other to understand. Not many know, how as when to tell the partner about the physical party of the love relations. Means, we will study?

To choose the right time

Avoid discussion of intimate questions during proximity, and here to prompt to darling of his action, to direct the movements, always please. As a result, win both: you take pleasure, and he will feel like the good lover. The main thing expresses the desires clearly. Men of a being very concrete therefore try to avoid an innuendo and hints.

It is correct to place accents

It is important not to overdo with manifestation of an initiative. It is much more pleasant to men to realize that fact that they are capable to give to the partner pleasure and without her instructions. Therefore, in talk as however and in everything, it is necessary to know when to stop. Also it is not necessary to turn each proximity into a course on technology of sex. At first talk about love, admire it, and then already pass to business: Darling, our last sex was unforgettable and I very much want to try still here so. It is interesting to men to try new, but not to be engaged in a correction of mistakes.

If conversation is put correctly, it will quickly bring the partner and the embodiment of imaginations in life will begin. Also remember: do not complain, and admire, do not remember its misses, and anticipate. Also praise before stating a wish.

After that the man’s self-assessment raises, and with it together, readiness to pull up trees to give you pleasure. But it is better to tell the truth, otherwise the partner can suspect insincerity.

There can be also an opposite situation. The man is in the lead in couple and constantly offers something extraordinary. If your desires coincide, there is nothing shameful in fancy-dress or any more extravagant sex. But if proposals of the partner are unacceptable for you, to be silent about it and you should not suffer. And tactfully to explain that similar innovations to you not to liking.

It is better to wait.

If the man does not go for open conversation on intimate relations, without regard to your repeated attempts to talk about it, you should not hurry him. If in principle sex with darling suits you, it is hardly worth demanding persistently innovations in love caress and a prelude, and, above all to wait from the man of an immediate embodiment of all of your sexual desires. Be respectful to its expectation. Quite perhaps he to your requests will listen and surely them will execute, but a bit later.

Own terms

Russian, alas, is not rich with gentle words for a bed. Or it is obscene, or absolutely scientifically. It is possible to use councils of sex grants (magazines, books, video). But there is an exit. It is optional to use boring and dry language, calling parts of a body Latin terms. It is possible to tell: it is pleasant to me when you do here and to show as well as where.

Also have fun together with darling! After all, not for nothing gentle meetings are called still love game. Can invent the names or even to play the whole stories.

Men very much appreciate women who can conduct with them intimate conversations. Most of the experts considers that this special pleasure it is desirable for them to learn and teach the man.

If your intimate relations regularly force you to mourn, the straight talk is extremely necessary. There can be it that case when it is necessary to seek consultation to the sex expert.